My evening holiday e-correspondence with a friend who is already used to my constant “digging” into her challenges …
Peter: How are you, where did you go for your holidays?
Mojca: My husband and I cooled down in the mountains for two weeks.
Peter: What, are you still trying to be married?! I thought you’ve given that up …
Mojca: I’m not trying to be married, but I’ve accepted that life can be beautiful even if you don’t try too much … You can get on or off the train at any moment, this is my strategy now …
Peter: Good that you’ve realised that life can be nice even though you’re not trying hard. But, of course, there is a question – why should you try at all?
Mojca: True, why on earth should I try?
Peter: Well, answer this question: What would be the worst thing that could happen if you didn’t try?
Mojca: My family would fall apart.
Peter: And what is the worst thing about having no family?
Mojca: I would be lonely.
Peter: When was the first time you felt like that …?
Mojca: Very early in my childhood, when my brother was born. I was four.
Peter: Come on, relax a bit … Just give me a few minutes … OK. Done: elimination of trauma, downloading of feelings of support, relaxation and being loved. Thank you for a new story 🙂 I promise I will publish it soon 😉 Okay, let’s go to sleep. Good night!
Mojca: Thank you very much for everything, I appreciate it a lot! I feel great, light and relaxed. Have a good time, good night!
Mojca (a month later): I’m all right, I think my relationship with my brother is going to improve. I’ve realised that I experienced and perceived his birth as “the end” for me, and ever since then I’ve been acting in relationships and pretending so that people would like me. Unbelievable, really. Thanks.
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